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Pleasure Doesn’t Always Look Pretty

I believe that’s KarmenKarma. Sure this looks violent and degrading and misogynistic. And it also looks fun (& if you follow her on Twitter, you’ll see she thinks so too). I enjoy having my breathing constricted. Pleasure doesn’t always look pretty. I’d say don’t judge a book by its cover, but realistically our brains are wired to take shortcuts like that, with so much information around us to be processed. So instead of not judging, being aware of one’s judgment of book covers opens up a space to ask – well is my judgment really legit? Maybe it is. Maybe it isn’t. And even if it is for you, someone else may think its the best book ever written. As my dad would say, that’s why there are 64 crayons in every box (I don’t even know HOW many more there are today!).

Originally posted on Tumblr!

Edited: August 12th, 2014

How Can a Vibrator Help With Better Blowjobs?

Many vibrators, especially the electric kind, are marketed as “massagers.”

Sure it feels good to “massage” the genitals, but don’t forget it can be used for other body parts too!

I get a sore jaw sometimes, especially when I wake up in the morning because I sometimes grind my teeth. I used to have a mouthguard until I realized it only made me grind my teeth even more, tensing up the jaw even further.

I love having sex when Terry and I wake up together and snuggle before getting out of bed. But morning oral can be hard on my mouth.

I recently discovered its a lot easier if I use my vibrator…not on my pussy, but on my jaw! Twice last week I used my vibrator on my whole body to relax myself before bed. I massaged my jaw muscles on each side and the tendons under my chin. I wasn’t trying to give a better blow job, but when we woke up and fucked in the morning there was no tension or tightness in my mouth! Made our playtime much more fun.

So if oral hurts your mouth, whether you’re going down on a guy or a girl, try bringing the vibrator up north!

Edited: March 21st, 2013

How to Give a Blowjob So He Cums in an Instant

A woman wants to please her well-endowed partner and needs some help. With a sore jaw, she wants to know how to give a blowjob he’ll enjoy much more (and much faster).

How can she improve her oral skills?

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And check out:
Nina Hartley’s Guide to Better Fellatio

Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide to Advanced Fellatio

And watch this sexy beast for jaw exercises to improve your oral stamina, whether you’re going down on a man, woman, or anyone else:

Do you have any how to give a blowjob tips to share?

Edited: November 28th, 2012

To Swallow or Not to Swallow: What to Do With Semen After a Blowjob

Most guys I’ve met prefer their partner to swallow his semen after a blowjob, but not all women are game.

Let’s see what Dan and Jennifer have to say about blowjobs and semen:

Edited: February 22nd, 2012